I recently started reading the book Radical Acceptance, written by Tara Brach. Within the first paragraph (or perhaps the forward!) I was hooked, almost in tears. It was so on.
In the third chapter of the book Brach introduces the idea of the “sacred pause,” the seconds, minutes, hours, days, months, or years that we stop and pay attention to what is in the now. The cessation of thoughts of the past, future, or movement towards any goal. Perhaps paying attention to sensations in the body, the feeling of breath, or stopping before reacting to a situation. What is really going on?
This pause can be a very powerful tool as society is so accustomed to constantly being on the go, of moving from activity to activity in fear of what stillness might hold. What might we discover about ourselves or surrender to if we did allow ourselves to be still?
In the slower paced yoga classes I teach this fear of stillness is evident, especially in the yin style poses that are held for several minutes. Students become fidgety, wiggling around, looking up to see when I will tell them to move on. In these minutes of stillness the chatter of the body becomes difficult to ignore and that can bring a lot to the surface, even that which we try to bury.
Brach suggest a guided reflection on this “sacred pause,” weaving into your daily life and allowing some insight into what lurks below the surface:
“Choose a time when you are involved in a goal-oriented activity-reading, working on the computer,etc…and explore pausing for a moment or two. Begin by discontinuing what you are doing, sitting comfortably and allowing your eyes to close. Take a few deep breaths and with each exhale let go of any worries or thoughts about what you are going to do next; let go of any tightness in the body.
Now notice what you are experiencing as you in habit the pause. What sensations are you aware of in your body? Do you feel anxious or restless as you try to step out of your mental stories? Do you feel pulled to resume your activity? Can you simply allow, for this moment, whatever is happening inside of you?”
Take a pause, try it.
Hannah





